In this Instagram-able world, when it comes to attributes we look for in a romantic partner, we might think “looks” and “style” would come up at the very top of the list. Not so.

And that’s good news, because besides sense of humor (which for most of us I think is set in place), being responsible with your money, or financially fit, is a key attribute people are looking for–and that is something we have control over. This infographic shows more: